Wednesday, October 23, 2013

CONFIDENCE IS THE ULTIMATE AFTER WISDOM

CONFIDENCE IS THE ULTIMATE AFTER WISDOM
Wisdom, no doubt, is the principal thing. Wisdom is defined as the ability to make good and serious judgments because of one’s experience and knowledge (Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary 5th edition). Simply put, wisdom is the application of what you know. You may have the knowledge, but you are only wise when you can make good use of what you have.
For instance, as at the time I learnt about the keys and cords on an acoustic guitar and I can play any of the neck cords. That is I had knowledge of the guitar; wow! It was fascinating. But it however became frustrating when I tried to find another person’s key and tried to follow the person as he or she is singing. It took more practice and rehearsals. Hence the ability to follow a song, play the right key, the right cords and right progression is wisdom. And wisdom remains the boss!
However, confidence can make wisdom more useful or almost useless. Confidence is a feeling or belief that one can firmly trust or rely on somebody, somebody’s ability or something that is said, reported etc. (Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary 5th edition). I prefer to define it for this purpose that confidence is believing it when the voice inside of you tells you that you can do it and you say yes! I can achieve it. It is also called believing in yourself.
THEY MUST WORK TOGETHER
I think it is clear that what am trying to say is that, you need a good dose of confidence along with the knowledge of what you are about to do or achieve before you venture into it. For instance, if you know how to sing and can apply all the voice technology, but, lack confidence, you will, yes! will perform very badly in an audition. And if you do not know how to sing and you go for an audition with so much a confidence, you will be disgraced out of the sage. The same thing for exams; If you have read and prepared but, still afraid and trembling, the result would likely not meet up with your preparation. On the other hand, if you are not in any way prepared for an examination and you came into the hall with full confidence, the examiner will also have the full confidence to give you a confidential ZERO. Keep in mind too that over-confidence can be equated to pride.
Supposing, wisdom and confidence can be measured in percentage, then get well above 50% wisdom and well above 70% confidence. It has been proved over time that a person with 50% wisdom and 70% confidence will perform better than a person who has 70% wisdom and less than 50% confidence. This is because confidence illuminates your wisdom and makes you look bright or brighter. But on the other hand, timidity makes you look dull and incompetent. This is so because you become nervous among other thing which opens you up to mistakes.
But, make no mistakes, an over 70% percent wisdom with an over 70% confidence is certainly the one who would be at the peak of his game. Therefore, I strongly advice that you get as much wisdom as you can and get full confidence that you can do it, you only need to try.
IN CONCLUSION
Confidence can never replace wisdom nor is it more important than wisdom. And also, wisdom cannot optimize its ability without confidence. Although wisdom is more important, confidence gives it the much needed boost to take it to the zenith. So wisdom is the principal thing, but, you need to be confident as well else it may be wasting or manifesting below its level. Step up your wisdom, and step up the confidence too. Nothing like it!
God bless you.
@joshuaboyede

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

I'm not going to church because...


I love sundays. Maybe because it's a public holiday. Folks are always peacefully beautiful and its a holy-day.

But I don't go to church because I don't want to go to hell;
We settled that the day I got on my knees and invited Jesus into my heart.
As He stepped in, I didn't offer Him a seat I gave Him the keys to my life, all of them.
We sealed a deal that no matter what happens or what I do He must keep the keys. And we stamped it with His blood;
You are right to say I burnt the bridge when I crossed it and I don't regret it.
So I'm not going to the church to evade hell. I'm already a citizen of Heaven.

This may sound funny, but I'm not going to church because I need blessings too.
Yea, be it unto you according to your faith.
God blessed me with Jesus and the Holy Ghost-what else do I ask for.
I got Jesus, Jesus got everything-what else do I need.
By His stripe, I was healed and can never fall sick again.
He was broke, so now I'm boxed up,
He breath in me and gave me life! Life!
I got the Holy Ghost! The power and ability of God. The creative and creating force plus the anointing.

So what am I doing in church?
I'm here to fellowship with the brethren.
I'm here to get deeper insight into the mind of God.
I'm here that MY Jesus may increase in me.
I'm here that the Power of the Holy Ghost be refined and I'm here in the church that the anointing may double till overflow...

If only you understand Eph 1:17-22; you will never miss service for the right reasons.

Please Quit the ritual. God bless you.

@Joshuaboyede

My activity mentality


My activity mentality is affecting my productivity,
My busy body bothers about even the buttons,
My entirety base on priority is in dexterity,
As if going and coming is same as gliding and climbing.
Is this what I should be doing?
Is this what is due him?
Lord I trust you to guide me with your rod and staff.
On this I rely solely.
Thank you for guiding me.
I love you too Jesus.

Friday, October 18, 2013

I JUST SING! (Don't stay down, get out of that mood)


I JUST SING! (Don't stay down, get out of that mood)

While training Di-Ambassadors how to discover themselves I also discovered something new about myself.

Its a discovery, not because it has not been there remember, but because I just realize it.

Been predominantly melancholic by temperament, I could get real depressed after a big outing. Also my perfectionist tendency won't let me enjoy my hunt after it's roasted.

So here's my discovery, I could SING, so I could sing myself in and out of ANY MOOD. Meaningless right? Wait a second;

A person of my type may feel worthless, frustrated and useless after producing a master piece. Yes, and it's really bad that some even can contemplate suicide. So instead of this happening, I JUST SING. And that way I enjoy my spoils. Glory to God!

If you are my type, even if you cannot sing, play a hard beat or high tempo song like afro-hip pop, metallic rock, hard cord rap and so on. Turn the volumes all up and sing along not minding who is there or not. You may want to use an ear piece.
You can also fix your mind on the next project. Which ever way DON'T STAY DOWN-GET OUT OF THAT MOOD!

My Joke of the week (Akoko Adura-Prayer time)


My Joke of the week (Akoko Adura-Prayer time)
Since the 1st of July, 2013, the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) in Nigeria has been on strike.

Some of us just choose to laugh it off with different concepts and ideas. Some have drawn cartoons, some did mock news and so on. My friend (Christian Sanni) shared this one with me and I did the interpretation.

Just feel free and laugh:

Akoko Adura (prayer time);
Waa gbadura (you will pray);
Waa pariwo toooo ( you will shooooooout)
Waa kigbe be eni ti won fi kondo lu;
(You will scream like someone beaten with a pestle);
Waa wipe (you say)
**ASUU, KINI MON SEEEEE, FI AYE MI ATI EKO MISILLE!** Aduraaaa
(**ASUU, what is my offence, leave my life and academics alone!** Prayeeeeer).

Oya! Yea! ASUU!..............
 Lol!
If you forget to laugh, you are pessimistic, if you laugh to forget you are optimistic...

Have pleasant day.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

DISCOVERING YOUR TALENTS


TALENTS
Mensa Otabil defines talent as resource that is invested into our lives for the purpose of yielding profit. Talents are your natural abilities which you were born with. It is inborn and everyone-yes! Everyone have some talents. These talents are there to be discovered, developed and deployed.
Identifying your talents could be a little tricky but all it takes is for you to watch yourself and be very honest with yourself. The steps below can help you discover those hidden treasures God has deposited in you from your mother’s womb. Remember, be open minded. Don’t read the steps with the aim of confirming what you wish is your talent. Rather follow the step, imagine yourself been spread out on a tray and trying to figure out the real thing inside of you. Be objective-it’s your life we are talking about here.


DISCOVERING YOUR TALENTS
Step 1. Find time and think of what you love and enjoy doing and can do very well. What do you love to do even before you are ask to do it? What do you seem to be naturally good at doing? Something you do so easily you wonder why it’s difficult for others to do? What is it that when about to start or when it’s time to do it you jump on it and once you have started you don’t stop, in fact they would have to literally drag you away from it? What is it that even when they say ‘I no send you’, yet you go ahead and do it because you really enjoy doing it? If you find it-that may just be what we are looking for-your talent.
Note: this does not include the kind of ungodly pleasure you derive when doing the wrong things. It has to be something profiting to you and those around you positively.
Step 2. Explore and explore more! Find a place or environment where you are free to express yourself without the fear of been ‘wrong’ or ‘criticized’ or ‘teased’ and try different things. This is because you cannot know if you enjoy writing until you try it. You cannot know how much you would enjoy dancing until you try. Explore! Try things you think you won’t like, try the ones you have not tried before. It could be with friends you are very free with or you alone. Try dancing before a mirror, try rearing animals, try drawing, picture yourself before a crowd and teach them, or motivate them, or act drama for them. Try running, try playing tennis, football, handball, try cooking, try baking, try doing M.C.- just explore! You may not know which one would really lighten you up. If you love it, enjoy it and it came easy-watch it! That may it.
Step 3. Interest and attention. Remember I said watch yourself and be honest. So to discover your talent you have to note what catches your attention? What arouse your interest? What kind of people do catch your fancy naturally? Do you love the blue collar or white collar people? What kind of books do you prefer to read? As you flip through the magazines which one do you really feel attracted to? What subjects do you love talking about, especially the one that your friends would shout on to you to shoot up! Yet you are not done and would love to continue talking? What makes you very excited that you feel like carrying out of your love/excitement for it? What makes you scream-wow! Even when others don’t see anything in it? What is it that you can’t wait to finish what you are doing and start doing? That may be it!
Step 4. Ask questions. Ask questions from anyone willing to tell you. Ask your friends one on one. This is because they see you when you lighten up and get excited about some things, when they find some things difficult they bring it to you because you can do it. So ask. Then compile the answers you get from them and compare them. The answer you get are also reliable in discovery of talent. Most times there are a lot of things people see in us that we ourselves never took note of. But that does not mean everything they say is correct, rather they are just pointers. Compile, compare and correctly convince yourself.
Step 5. Also what people say or always comment about you is quite helpful. You don’t have to be seriously doing what you are doing; sometimes you may just be doing what you are doing even absent mindedly and not caring about what you do. But while doing it, someone would so love what you are doing that they may keep watching the way you are doing it. Some would just come tell you that they appreciate the way you do it. Some people may have been watching you for a while before they tell you. To you, you were just doing a normal thing-but to others it’s amazing. Some may even call you and give you ideas on how to develop it. You may probably be thinking every other person does it naturally too but you don’t know it’s always looking different to them when you do it- start to watch it!
Step 6. Help others discover themselves by telling them what you perceive is their talent. Yours may just be there waiting to open as you help someone else. Just like yourself, you may be sure of how talented your friend is in a particular thing and your friend may not have discovered it yet. Help your friend yours may be uncovered in the process.
Step 7. Be bold and have the guts to try. Most people don’t try because they don’t want to be wrong. They don’t want to fail. But, how would you know if you will pass if you don’t try. If you feel like singing-sing. If you feel like dancing-just dance. If you enjoy doing it then do it again and again. Talent is always first a raw material, you won’t get all the joy in one day, but that little you did will lighten you up. Also note what you are not so good at doing or you struggle to do. At least that will make you stop looking that way and also help you look in the opposite direction where your talent would be. Be bold enough.
In conclusion, if you find it, practice it more often. Even if you find out that the excitement dies off after some time. It will eventually pave way for the real ones.
VERY IMPORTANT
It must not be only one, you may and should discover more than one because you could be multi-talented however you would also have a major.
Don’t be afraid or ashamed to admit you were wrong if you find out you were wrong. Follow the steps again and don’t stop till you get what you want-Thank God we are still young!

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-3(abstract)


DI-AMBASSADOR’S SUMMIT
LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-3(abstract)
(1COR 2:9-10)

HOW DO I DISCOVER MYSELF?
Discovering yourself involves getting to know who you really are, your abilities, strength and weaknesses in order to live a purposefully daily and ultimately achieve Gods purpose for your life.
     People say a lot about themselves such as ‘I’m a humbly person’, I’m this… or that…, do you always agree that its true?
Tip: Keep this in mind; people always say things they wish they are or they think they are instead of what they really are. Also nobody loves talking about their weakness and they prefer to just ignore it and think others too will ignore it. But you know now…..
I have divided the self discovery tools into two; primary/independent factors and secondary/dependent factors. The difference is that, you can discover yourself solely on the primary/independent factors. While the secondary/dependent factors only help to confirm the findings of your primary factors. The secondary factors are not on their own dependable because of its sly nature.
THE PRIMARY/INDEPENDENT FACTORS INCLUDE;
Talents;
Gifts;
Passions; and
Divine Revelations.
THE SECONDARY/DEPENDENT FACTORS INCLUDE;
Temperament;
Childhood dream/desires/hero; and
Life Expectations.

LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-2


LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-2(abstract)
(1COR 2:9-10)

The truth is that, most people who claim to know their purpose in life only have an idea of what God has in store for them. The Bible, in 1Corinthians 2:9, says But as it is written, eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him. (see also Isaiah 64:4).
So those who have “discovered purpose” majorly discovered themselves and started living purposefully every day of their life.
SELF DISCOVERY, on the other hand simply means knowing yourself, your abilities, strengths and weaknesses. This will help put you on the right path to fulfilling your purpose in life.
For instance, I strongly believe that the purpose of Joseph coming to the earth was to save the Israeli Nation and the World from going into extinction through hunger. Joseph’s purpose was primarily to feed his family, Egypt and the World from starvation. [ He called down famine on the land and destroyed all their supplies of food; and he sent a man before them – Joseph, sold as a slave. Psalms 105:16-17] But, Joseph discovered himself early that he was destined to be a great leader and role model. He also discovered his administrative abilities as he kept his master’s house and even in Prison (Genesis 39:1-5). He was equally later endowed with the gift to interpret dreams. This self discovery coupled with his consistent and unbroken relationship with God made him live purposefully every day and he ultimately fulfilled his God given purpose.
That doesn't mean that you can know your purpose. Instead it means you cannot decide how it will be by yourself. A quick reminder of how to maintain a consistent and unbroken relationship with God is that you must connect and re-connect to God daily. The first connection is for you to be born again anew or re-dedicate yourself by accepting Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour. While the ‘re-connect’ is to keep your link with God by daily devotion, prayer, study of the word and doing what the word says.
I pray you too will become a great leader and role model for others to follow in Jesus name. Amen.

LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-1


DI-AMBASSADOR’S SUMMIT
LIVING PURPOSEFULLY DAILY THROUGH SELF DISCOVERY-1(abstract)
(1COR 2:9-10)

Man (men and women) didn’t just appear on a worthless planet and kept wondering aimlessly, rather, everything has his own purpose for existence. The sun has its purpose, the moon, the goats, and the gigantic, non-complaining mother earth are all achieving their purpose. God did not take His time out of His tightly busy schedule just to create a useless thing let alone a useless man. In this same way, everyone has a reason for still living. Therefore the reason for God creating anything and particular you is the same as the purpose of that person. God, the creator, created every personality not as a coincidence but an asset from which He expect dividence.
It is worthy of note that aside from God having a purpose for our lives, that purpose which He has is a good one- yes! It is a good purpose. However, what you make of it or out of it depends largely on the choices you make. It is very possible for everybody in a class to pass a particular exam just as it is possible also for everybody in a particular class to fail. It all depends on the seriousness of both the teacher and students. God is ready to make you pass, so why not decide to pass and do what it takes to pass excellently.
The problem, however, is that most people don’t care to find out their purpose while others may have a clue yet live a life without purpose. My prayer is that from this very momemt you will live purposefully daily in Jesus name. Amen.

DON’T WANT TO BE MYSELF

Don't Want to be Myself

All across the street, down to the media in my room,
They say if it feels right I can do it,
But, right there in my room it felt right just for a moment and then it felt all wrong.
“Be yourself” have been the topic,
But only doing God’s will can bring me tropies.
I was conceived and my Momma bore me in sin,
You see, the scene and place of my birth was not the seen but sin.
I grew up to understand sin without been tought.
I didn’t learn to steal before I stole,
Neither did I learn to cheat, lie and cover up with other lies before I became a professional in them.
But, I had to learn to speak the truth and obey.
I had to learn to love and live peacefully.
I had to learn not to get angry.
I had to learn not be myself.
Now each time I hear-“Be yourself”
I wonder which of myself I should be.
I remember who I was back in those wasted years; rude, stubborn, a liar, a cheat, a player, volatile, dangerous, and a devilish cool-calm-good-bad-boy.
But Jesus came; picked me, brushed me, washed me, cleanse me, hugged me, saved me, and steady me in Himself.
It’s no longer what feels right, but what Jesus say is right.
I don’t want to ever be myself again.
Lesser till none of me, and
More till all of you Jesus.
Even if I’m called the 21st century cave man,
I still choose to be ALL FOR JESUS.
Shelah.
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