Maturity

Maturity 1
I am yet to meet anybody who admit that they are not mature yet i see and hear a lot of people act that way. So i ask myself; Am i matured? what if i am not matured? What if i am not matured enough? To answer these i made some findings:
To be mature means to be 'fully developed', grown up in terms of physical appearance, behaviour or thinking (English Dictionary on Andriod)

To fully develop in physically appearance seems to be the easiest.  That doesn't mean its easy considering working with balanced diet, exercise, junk food, de-worming, etc. But compare to others, it is the easiest.

Then to be fully developed in behaviour-that's the bigger one. This entails what you do when you are alone, with friends, in public, before guests, etc. It also include your manners, courtesy, etiquette, language usage, character, habits, addictions, anger management, etc. A lot of people judge maturity with this one. I must confess, it is difficult to keep up, but you decide whether to keep up or step down to immaturity.

Then the biggest -fully developed in thinking. Most people act on impulse almost althrough their life. They buy on impulse, talk on impulse, eat on impulse, date a person on impulse, sleep on impulse, dance on impulse, pick a career or business on impulse, get married on impulse, have children on impulse, and to them death equally picks on impulse. But, there is a maturity that flows from your thinking. And this one control every other.
This is because, as a man think, so is he.

Back to my question; am i matured? Well i was a little defensive, so i made more findings on the opposite of maturity and what it means not to be matured. (Continue on next blog post).

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